Less or More
- Christine D'Arrigo
- Jun 26
- 1 min read

It seems that remaining steadfast in my resolve to find joy and purpose as democracy continues to dissolve is becoming an almost full-time job. I’m finding that I have to work much harder to remain upbeat as well as to focus and concentrate, which, of course, is reflected in my writing. My disjointed thoughts have been resulting in fragments more often than prose, resulting in lots of lists and abecedaries (and plodding progress on the book). Hoping you’ll bear with me, as I’m learning to bear with myself.
Today’s offering outlines what I want less and more of, from myself, from my life, from others, or from the world at large.
I want less:
Apologizing
Bitterness
Complaining
Dwelling
Explaining
Fear
Grievance
Heartache
Indignation
Jingoism
Keeping score
Lollygagging
Materialism
Numbing
Obsession
People-pleasing
Quick judgments
Resentment
Schadenfreude
Tumult
Umbrage
Violence
Warmongering
Xenophobia
Yelling
Zealotry
I want more:
Acceptance
Bravery
Compassion
Determination
Enthusiasm
Faith
Generosity
Humility
Intuition
Justice
Kindness
Love
Mindfulness
Nurturing
Openness
Peace
Questions
Resilience
Sensuality
Truth
Understanding
Vivacity
Wonder
Xenophilia
YES
Zeal
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Thanks for reading! What do you want less or more of?
GOOD THINGS

It’s benign! And he’s rocking the cone of shame with panache. Wish I was half as much of a trooper.
A mother/daughter team built a house with glass bottles found on their beach. I love everything about this story.
nice!
Thought provoking, as always. Both lists included a few that I hadn’t thought of and totally agree.